I am so blessed. I really am. I just enjoyed a wonderful visit with my family. I took spring break off from work, readied the house, and thoroughly enjoyed the visit. I had my parents fly in from Las Vegas. They retired out there 5 years ago, and I miss them very much. My dad required hot, dry climate, for his increasing arthritis and general health issues. My mom likes the warm of the desert as well. My brother and his daughter (age 11) moved out there with them about 3 years ago. He was into drugs and alcohol, and was kicked out of 3 apartments within a year. I was going to have my niece stay with me, because he was not really able to take care of her. Since he moved out to my parents, he is clean and sober, and has gone back to school. He graduates in 18 months. All four were able to fly out to our home.
Also able to come out were 2 of my dad's sisters and 1 brother. (My dad was one of 6) One aunt is unable to travel and the other brother was unable to get time from work.. They all live in Virginia, on our family farm. They stayed for 4 days! We had decent weather at that time, and dad got to enjoy being with his siblings for probably the last time in this lifetime. You see, my dad was diagnosed with Parkinson's only a couple of months ago, and the meds are not really doing much good for him. He still has tremors, from the Parkinson's, and his hands and feet are twisted and gnarled from the arthritis. But he really had a good time. We heard all kinds of family stories of them in "The old days..." and since my dad's sister introduced them, and they married a year later, he wanted to do something nice for them. Their 42nd wedding anniversary is next week. Without letting my mom know, (the rest of us were in on it) he arranged for us to all go out to dinner at a local restaurant. Mom thought Michael and I were the instigators. She did not expect it to be Dad. At the announcement, Dad stood up, and told everyone that she was always his true love, always had been and always would be, and there was never anyone else for him. She cried, I think we all did.
We took a couple a days to go to their old town, where we used to live, so they could see old friends. The town certainly has changed! During this time, we believe that my dad may have suffered a small stroke, a TIA if you will. I stayed with him and he seemed to come out of it a bit, but there is some residual effects. We came back to our home, and went to the passion play that night. I had never been to a passion play before, and had seen Mel Gibson's movie only once (It was so very powerful). Our church did a really nice job, everyone in character before, during and after the play, and our pastor gave the invitation and several people came to Jesus as a result of it. Praise GOD for those!
When we got home, My little Boo asked her grandpa, "You know, when Jesus comes, I get to go fly in the sky to be with Him. Are you going too?" And Da (as we call grandpa) said,"Yes I am, and since He is going to fix my old body and give me a new one, I'll be able to keep up with you!" They hugged and Boo told him how much she loves him and Jesus, and Da told her some of the Bible stories he used to tell me when I was her age.
It was so very hard to take them to the airport for them to fly back. Lots of hugs, laughs, and tears. I know that it will be dad's last trip here, because travelling is too hard on him. He felt good about seeing his family and seeing the places that he called home for a while. He had fun watching the kids hunt for Easter eggs, some filled with candy and quarters, others from the Ressurection Eggs. He told the story of Jesus that evening, so the real meaning is not lost on the kids.
I am cleaning up the house now. I have things to put away, things to dust, LOADS of laundry. Lots to do. And I am smiling! Because we had a great visit, and I know that as much as my dad is hurting physically, he and I share another Daddy, a Heavenly Father who is going to make everything better one day. I was blessed to have such great parents, and a fun, loving family. We still enjoy being around each other, and there are so many families who don't or can't. My husband and my dad spent a couple of evenings on the deck, just talking. It was a great time.
I thank the Lord for blessing me with so much! Not just these things this week. But for the real meaning of Easter....The Resurrection and Eternal life that I will have with my Lord and Saviour! AND, I know that I am going to have one heck of a family reunion up there, not only with the family I know about, but all my friends and family in Jesus Christ! Oh blessed is the day!
Come quickly, Lord Jesus!
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Dear Faith,
Wow...what a wonderful time you all had! It just made me remember all of those great times at Lisa's with everyone making those memories and making sure they were cherished and words said in case it was that 'last time'.
I'm so happy for all of you. We will keep your dad in prayer. How old is he....? I know he has alot of health problems but you never know. We serve an awesome God.
Enjoy your week off. Take some time to enjoy your kids. That's what I'm doing this week. I love you sister!
FD:
It really was wonderful! Dad is only 64, will be 65 in Nov. He does have quite a few health issues, the Parkinson's being the most recent dx. (December 06) I pray that the Lord's will be done, if not to heal, then to at least ease his pains. His body is much older than his chronological years! He still has a great spirit about him (and One within him!)
You're right, tho. We all were able to make very sweet memories of time with him, in case. I know he will not be able to travel very far anymore, so unless we are going to LV, we won't get to see him. Not that us travelling out there is all bad, last year we went and did a lot of fun stuff...The Grand Canyon is only a 5 hour drive, and we enjoyed 5 days there! I am just glad he was also able to spend time with his siblings as well. Having a farm, they don't always get to travel much either, so it was a real blessing for them to make it here.
I went in to work today after a week off. Census isnt too bad, so it was like easing back into routine. And the sun is out...Life is good!
I hope things are going well in your neck of the woods...I know you have been through tons lately. Have lots of fun with the kiddos! Know that I love you much and you are on my short list on prayer!
God bless you, Sue!
Love, Faith
Faith,
It was good to see you on Joel's and at Child's. I miss you dear sister. How's things at your neck of the woods.....I'm thinking you must be quite busy. Just wanted to know that I'm thinking of you and hopin you have a wonderful Mother's day!
Love you
Faith,
You are such a dear, dear, sister in Christ! I know you understand my situation. And blended families do have their unique problems don't they? I thank you for your prayers and I love you more than you know....I can't wait to see you at the cafe! How's Kurt doing? I think about you and your family often.
Much love to you and your family.
Faith,
I hope you don't think I'm annoying....but I just had to stop by and say "hi"!
I think of you often and your sweet spirit is an inspiration as a 'stepmom' to me....
I pray for you often and think of you often as well....I often think if we lived by each other we would be great friends....
Anyways, much love to you girl
Faith,
Hi there! I know you've been busy, and me, too :)
I've enjoyed reading your comments on Joel's, and child of the King's Blogs!
How have you been?
When you have a little time, drop by and let us know, okay?
Faith,
Just checking to see if you had posted an update about your Father.
Hope to hear some good news soon.
Love you.
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